All depends on what the primary purpose of your new car will be. Is this the casual car that you and your wife share? For the new kid and going to the store to get groceries? Or is this a car that is meant to be fun to drive? To teach your wife to drive manual?
Just make sure you keep in mind your priorities and remember you can always get something else to fit your other priorities. It doesn't all have to be contained in the one car.
Just make sure you keep in mind your priorities and remember you can always get something else to fit your other priorities. It doesn't all have to be contained in the one car.